First Date Conversation Without Desperation

First Date Conversation Without Desperation

I met a very wise man named Arthur a few weeks ago at our company party. We were celebrating one of our biggest years in history so as you can tell it was a festive blow out.

I had seen Arthur a few times around the office. He is in his late forties, single and fit. Hmmmm…I thought. Why were there three gorgeous women around him for more than two hours at the party? Could he have money? Far from it. Arthur is a mid-level broker so I can assure you his income is much less than half what I earn every year. I needed to know what his secret was. “Arthur,” I laughed throwing my arm around him leading us away from the blonde, brunette and redhead.

“What’s your secret?”

He smiled. “Young man, I suspect you’re wondering why three ladies nearly half my age are clinging to me for hours,” he asked. “There are three things you need to know about first date conversation…”

“First, never, ever talk about yourself in the first five minutes of conversation. Women suspect men are hard-wired for selfishness. It’s true you know. We are one of the most selfish beings on the planet. So my first tip is to focus on their beauty by asking questions. Ones that focus purely on their secret. Demand that she reveal her trick to staying so young-looking. This will cause her to blush and laugh.

Second, and this is vital, tell her a story about something you noticed when you first saw her. Make it curious as if there’s something genuinely sweet about how she looks which as far more provocative than any other woman in the room.

Third, laughter is the only thing that matters. Tell her about a time in your life when you made a big, fat mistake. Make it sound as if you were hoping to impress a woman but realized her beauty made you nervous. The more humility you can express the better. Have a few stories thought through so that you can recite them without trying to impress. Women absolutely adore men who do not take themselves too seriously.”

As Arthur returned to his ladies, I watched him. He made them laugh for what seemed like hours. As the party ended, I noticed he was walking to his car with one of them holding hands. It was obvious to me he knew the exact magic I needed to boost my confidence.

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Benefits of Online Dating

Remember the days when you had to go to your nearest night club to search for your perfect match? Well, gone are those days. Today, technology has provided newer and better ways of find true love. You can easily find a life partner at the comfort of your home through a computer. This is known as online dating.

Other than that, there are many benefits of online dating. I will bring you up to speed with some of the benefits of online dating.

1. Safety
We are all anonymous to everyone until we decide not to be. With online dating, you do not have to give the correct personal details that may put your security in jeopardy. In addition, you can choose who you want to speak to and for how long you want to hold the conversation. You no longer have to worry about strangers stalking you at your home or making late night calls. If you get a stalker whom you are not interested in, you can easily block or report him/her for harassing you.

2. Cheap way to find your match
Most dating sites are free to sign up. In addition, they do not charge you for using their services until you find and contact your perfect match. This is much cheaper than going to the bar each night and spending money to buy drinks just to meet people.

3. Your choice
With online dating, you pick the perfect person from the millions in the dating pool. You can never get those odds you get in a bar. Furthermore, you have the choice to pick your desired age, height, complexion and anything else you looking for in your dream partner.

4. Limits your fear of rejection
Most people, especially women find it difficult to approach a guy due to fear of rejection. Online dating tries to eliminate this fear by allowing you to send private messages before meeting them. Therefore, you no longer have to worry about rejection. If one fails to respond, it is not a big deal as there are a lot of people out there waiting for you to contact them.
These are just some of the many benefits you will enjoy by signing up to online dating sites.